Saturday, August 30, 2008

Friday, August 29, 2008

"Wake Me Up When September Ends"

Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
wake me up when september ends

like my fathers come to pass
seven years has gone so fast
wake me up when september ends

here comes the rain again
falling from the stars
drenched in my pain again
becoming who we are

as my memory rests
but never forgets what I lost
wake me up when september ends

summer has come and passed
the innocent can never last
wake me up when september ends

ring out the bells again
like we did when spring began
wake me up when september ends

here comes the rain again
falling from the stars
drenched in my pain again
becoming who we are

as my memory rests
but never forgets what I lost
wake me up when september ends

Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
wake me up when september ends

like my father's come to pass
twenty years has gone so fast
wake me up when september ends
wake me up when september ends
wake me up when september ends






note: do we wake up after september??

Monday, August 25, 2008

Ashame ?!

Did you feel ashame??
Ask urself...
I dun noe la...
u wan die, let u die...





Friday, August 22, 2008

Aeon-Jusco (Bandar Perda)

random pic of the mall





























havent seen McD hv such many worker....all busy..gt Aeon ppl inside..
dun noe they checking wat....all busy




















Main stage of the mall....



















this guy keep on capturing photo...



















different angle of Bossini



















it's car park is huge enough...gt 4 different colour...



















outlook......nice!!!

























































this  mall is nice!!
Conclusion:
it gt
Queensbay    的高度
Gurney          的高挡
Megamall      的規模
Sunway          的味道
Carrefour      的形狀
Autocity        的食物

Nice!!!


on the way back...notice something
Bandar Perda quite many government organization at there...

Ibu Pejabat Polis Diraja Malaysia












Bomba











Friday, August 15, 2008

我们常常会去想;我这样是「对」的吗?
你那样做是不是做「错」了呢?
他说的话是「有道理」的吗?
还是会坚持的说;我说的才是「正确」的呢?
这样的「对」与「错」关系,
就这样不自觉的在我们每天的互动中上演。
从家庭里父母与子女的对话中,
从不同场合关系里的观念对话里;
从整个文化潮流的改变中,
从不同世代的改革纷争里。
那种不断争论「对」与「错」的戏码,
就这样一直在我们生存的周遭里,
用不同的形式,
用不一样的话语,
甚至用各种不断翻新的方法,
还有一次又一次的「证明」,
来不断的炒热这种「对」与「错」的正当性!
无法停止的,
不断延续这样「对」与「错」的争辩!
可是,
事情真的就只有「对」与「错」这样的方式吗?
世界真的就只可用「对」与「错」的二分法来表现吗?
人世间的一切难道只有「对」与「错」吗?
在「对」与「错」之间,
我们又能容纳、拓展多少其他「不是对」也「不是错」的多样空间呢?

回头想想,什么是「对」?而什么又是「错」?
多少曾经自以为是「对」的观念如今都已经昨是今非了?
多少曾经以为是「错」的想法,
如今也因为时代改变而成为「理所当然」的了!
而在关系里,到底是争论「对」「错」重要呢?
还是「关系」本身才是真的重要的?
而「对」与「错」,
这样一分为二的粗糙撕裂分类,
似乎也已经无法满足我们今日多样化的需求了~

我也曾经积极的在这样的两极化里摆荡;
曾经也因为不知道该如何去区分「对」与「错」而慌乱。
甚至开始想要不用「对」与「错」的方式来看待事物时,
也历经了迷失与不知道该如何继续踏出下一步的恐惧!
毕竟那已經習慣的區分是容易的~
可是,當我漸漸的從那樣的框框走出後,
當我開始不再用僵化的「是非」、「黑白」、「對錯」來衡量一切後,
我感覺到我的視野拓寬了,
我的心靈也從窄化的黑白,
變成有了多層次的豐富了。
我的思索範圍也因為這樣的開展,
讓我更能欣賞世間上許多不同的美景!

你還在不自覺的分「對」與「錯」嗎?
你還在關係裡跟你所愛的人爭「對」與「錯」嗎?
你真的在乎的是這樣的「對」與「錯」嗎?
還是你願意試試看,把角度放寬一些去好好想想,
到底是怎樣才是「對」?怎樣才又是「錯」呢?

[source-from others blog] 

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Crazy


I remember when,
I remember,
I remember when I lost my mind
There was something so pleasant about that place.
Even your emotions had an echo
In so much space

And when you're out there
Without care,
Yeah, I was out of touch
But it wasn't because I didn't know enough
I just knew too much

Does that make me crazy
Does that make me crazy
Does that make me crazy
Possibly
Probably

And I hope that you are having the time of your life
But think twice, that's my only advice

Come on now, who do you, who do you, who do you, who do you think you are,
Ha ha ha bless your soul
You really think you're in control

Well, I think you're crazy
I think you're crazy
I think you're crazy
Just like me

My heroes had the heart to Lose their lives out on a limb
And all I remember is thinking, I want to be like them
Ever since I was little, ever since I was little it looked like fun
And it's no coincidence I've come
And I can die when I'm done

Maybe I'm crazy
Maybe you're crazy
Maybe we're crazy
Possibly

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

FWD MSG

對別人好.就是快樂


某天,小張要去相親,因為沒有看過對方,擔心她長得太醜,
於是交代朋友,十分鐘後 call 他的手機,這樣他就可以藉機遁逃。 
到了約會地點之後,小張發現女方驚為天人,
於是心想,等一下手機響不要回就好了。 
沒想到,美女的手機這時候響了起來,美女聽了兩秒後,對小張說:
『對不起,朋友有急事找我,我要先走了……』


 
有一個男人在派對上對男主人說:
『今天的美女真多,要是待會兒我泡上一個,
你可不可以把樓上的房間借我一用。』 
主人說: 『那你老婆怎麼辦?』
這人說: 『放心,她不會想念我的,我只失縱一下而已。』
主人說:
『我不是說這個,我是說十五分鐘前,她才向我借了樓上的房間。』



 
有一個老光棍,他並沒有什麼嗜好,
只是喜歡在睡覺前喝一點葡萄酒自娛。
然而,他發現這幾天有人偷了他的酒。
他便懷疑偷酒的是他的佣人,於是就把酒倒出來,
再裝入他的小便。但裝小便的酒,仍然每天減少。
他很不高興的把佣人叫來,責備一番。
『不,我並沒有偷喝!』
佣人說:
『我是想做味道更香更可口的菜給您吃,
所以我每天燒菜時,都加了一點在裡面。』




從這三則短文中各位有沒有發現什麼共通之處呢?
沒錯,你怎麼對別人,別人就怎麼對你;
你給別人什麼,別人就回報你什麼。 
說得更白一點就是,你給別人的,其實是給自己的。 
就像我在前面說過的,不管你丟出去什麼,
或是…想了、說了、做了什麼,最後都會回到你身上,不是嗎?
你給別人的,其實是給自己…
自食惡果的事說都說不完,讓我們再聽下面的故事:

在一家簡陋的酒館裡,正在喝大杯啤酒的李先生,突然覺得內急,
他匆匆忙忙站了起來,又想到上廁所時,酒可能被別人偷喝,
猶豫一會後,他找到一張紙,寫上: 《我吐口水在這裡!》,
把它放在杯子下面,然後才放心的去上廁所。
過了幾分鐘後,李先生回來時,他看到另一張紙寫道:
《我也吐了一口在這裡!》。
哈!哈!哈!  


 
我聽說從前有個人,他很不喜歡喝咖啡,
但是他太太並不知道,他從來沒告訴過她。
她非常喜歡喝咖啡,所以,每天早上都會順便為他…
準備一個熱水瓶的咖啡,跟他的便當擺在一起。
他一直都帶著那個便當和熱水瓶去工作,但是因為他很節儉,
所以每天晚上都會把那個熱水瓶帶回家,裡面的咖啡完全沒有被動到。
他知道太太很喜歡喝咖啡,為了要省錢,所以當她沒看到的時候,
他會將沒有喝的咖啡倒回咖啡壺裡。
晚上的時候他會用喝咖啡使他睡不著的理由把它推掉。
就這樣他每天都重複這麼做。

有一天,她的太太認識了另一個男人,
他們計劃好要毒害他,以獲取巨額的保險金,
於是她每天早上都放少量的砒霜在他的熱水瓶裡,
日復一日,直到最後她毒死了她自己。
你給別人的,其實是給自己的。
你說是不是呢?
你所給予的,都會回到你身上…
如果,你對人冷淡,別人也會回以冷漠;
如果,你經常批評別人,你也會接收到許多的批評;
如果,你總是擺一張臭臉,沒錯,別人也不會給你好臉色。
所有你所給予的,都會回到你身上。
套句詩人奧登( W.H.Auden)的話:
『人受惡意之作弄,必作惡以回報。』
如果你陷害別人,哪天你也會遭人陷害。

 
同樣的道理……
當你帶給別人歡樂,你就會得到歡樂;
帶給別人祝福,你就會得到別人的祝福;
如果你經常讚美別人,不久你也會聽到有人在讚美你,
《你給別人的,其實是給自己的!》。
你讓他人經歷什麼,有一天你也將自己經歷;
你怎麼對待你的父母,將來你的孩子也會怎麼對待你。
我想許多人一定聽過,
格林童話中有一則關於一位老人和兒子住在一起的故事。


老人的耳力已經不行了,眼睛也看不見,
顫抖的雙手經常把飯菜洒得滿地,碗也常打破,
兒子夫婦倆感到非常厭煩,給老爸爸一付木製碗筷,
把他趕到廚房幽暗的角落,不准和大家一起用餐。
有一天,兒子看到自己的兒子用刀片消木頭,
他好奇的問孩子要做什麼。
結果孩子回答: 『我在替你準備將來要用的木碗、木筷。』
從此以後,年老的父親又回到餐桌上吃飯,家人也都非常孝順他。


 
農夫的哲理
地球是圓的,整個世界都在繞著圈子,
不論你傷害誰,就長遠來看,你都是傷害到你自己,
或許你現在並沒有覺知,但它一定會繞回來。

所以,如果你佔了別人什麼便宜,
先別得意,很快你就會為此付出代價;
反過來,若是別人對你做了什麼,你也無需氣憤,
不必去報復,任何他們所做的,他們都將自食惡果。

《凡你對別人所做的,就是對自己所做的。》
這是歷來最偉大的教誨。

不管你對別人做了什麼,
那個真正接收的人,並不是別人,而是你自己;
同理,當你給予他人,當你為別人付出,
那個真正獲利的也不是別人,而是你自己。
有一個農夫的玉米品種,每年都榮獲最佳產品獎,
而他也總是將自己的冠軍種籽,毫不吝惜地分贈給其他農友。
有人問他為什麼這麼大方?
他說:
『我對別人好,其實是為自己好。
風吹著花粉四處飛散,如果鄰家播種的是次等的種籽,
在傳粉的過程中,自然會影響我的玉米品質。
因此,我很樂意其他農友都播種同一優良品種。』

他的話看似簡單卻深富哲理,凡你對別人所做的,就是對自己所做的。
所以,凡事你希望自己得到的,你必須先讓別人得到。

 
保證有效的秘方
就像那個農夫一樣,
如果你想要得到冠軍的品種,就要給別人冠軍的種籽。
你若想被愛,就要先去愛人;

你期望被人關心,就要先去關心別人;
你想要別人對你好,就要先對別人好。

這是一個保證有效的秘方,可以適用在任何情況。
如果你希望交到真心的朋友,你就必須先對朋友真心,
然後你會發現朋友也開始對你真心;如果你希望快樂,
那就去帶給別人快樂,不久你就會發現自己愈來愈快樂。

明白了嗎?

我們所能為自己做的最好的事情,就是去為他人多做點好事。

 
《己所欲,施於人。》
凡你想給予自己的經驗,就給予別人;
想別人怎麼對你,就怎麼對待別人。
感恩過去… 把握當下… 創造未來…

Monday, August 11, 2008

Emotional Quotient

EQ or Emotional Intelligent

can be category into:

Self-awareness
- the ability to read one's emotions and recognize their impact while using gut feelings to guide decisions.
this one chek kee dont have d

Self-management
- involves controlling one's emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.
erm...this one may be i dun hv...i always running fire

Social awareness
- the ability to sense, understand, and react to other's emotions while comprehending social networks.
yes..important in friends

Relationship management
- the ability to inspire, influence, and develop others while managing conflict.
yes...i had to learn...

The model proposes that EI includes 4 types of abilities:

1) Perceiving emotions
- the ability to detect and decipher emotions in faces, pictures, voices, and cultural artifacts- including the ability to identify one’s own emotions. Perceiving emotions represents a basic aspect of emotional intelligence, as it makes all other processing of emotional information possible.

2) Using emotions
- the ability to harness emotions to facilitate various cognitive activities, such as thinking and problem solving. The emotionally intelligent person can capitalize fully upon his or her changing moods in order to best fit the task at hand.

3) Understanding emotions
- the ability to comprehend emotion language and to appreciate complicated relationships among emotions. For example, understanding emotions encompasses the ability to be sensitive to slight variations between emotions, and the ability to recognize and describe how emotions evolve over time.

4) Managing emotions
- the ability to regulate emotions in both ourselves and in others. Therefore, the emotionally     intelligent person can harness emotions, even negative ones, and manage them to achieve intended goals.



i had found one new word, despite of EQ and IQ...
there was a new word SI- social intelligent which become more important nowadays




[source from wikipedia]

Saturday, August 9, 2008

[ formula II ]

hahaha...
dun pretend anymore...pls...
ok...start study now...
do exercise...practise...study...
keep on memorise...
keep on workout...
keep on keep on....

-END-

Saturday, August 2, 2008

[ formula ]

probably this is a very irritating happen among us...
its formula...

form 6 really need to memorise so many formula...
i wonder...
i really wonder...
as u all know...

Clever student really can use the formula well...
u noe what i mean?
erm....
let me describe more detail...

physics got how many formula?
chemistry got how many formula?
maths got how many formula?
p.a got how many formula?

i think about hundreds...

hey...does all things need formula to calculate??
I tell you !!
something that you really dun noe how to calculate

eg 1: 
[s=ut+1/2 at] 
is use to calculate distance in physics
but 
can you use this formula to calculate distance of our friendship? 

eg 2:
[p.H= pKa + log (salt/acid) ] 
is use to calculate pH of a solution
but 
can you use this formula to calculate what will happen when we mix?

eg 3:
[P(A u B)= P(A)+P(B)- P(A n B)] 
is use in maths
but
can you use this formula to calculate Me union You? 

eg 4:
[Dolar Amerika -Ringgit Malaysia] 
is use in PA to convert currency
but
 can you use this formula to convert to whatever you want?


sometimes friendship aren't not using formula to be..
is the feeling,
is the thinking that connect us..
not in theory..
pls dont use fact to all your friends..  
not as you said,
i got difference formula to difference friend

I ask you!!!
whether you can calculate or not!!

bastard!!
WTF!!
 
i havent met such person before...
i really hate you!!


Friday, August 1, 2008

Relationship between human beings

-家人 (family)
-親人 (relatives)
-情人 (lover)
-朋友 (friends)
-好朋友 (good friends)
-知己 (well known friend)
-豬朋狗友 (Pig Dog friend)
-敵人 (enemy)
-過路人 (people appear in your life but not affect you)
-陌生人 (unknown)
-性對相 (sex target)
-上師 (boss)
-下屬 (worker)
-老師 (teacher)
-學生 (students)
-同窗 (schoolmates)
-同學 (classmates)
-傭人 (maid)
-伙伴 (partner)

the first sentence we said when we met,
{hello}
{Wats ur name?}
Am i ur friend?


100 people 100 emotions
100 people 100 type relationship



Olympic Slogan:
Same World Same Dream


Connection of human beings are there


We should concern about OKU around us...


Think Green, Dont think Yellow




which relationship is the mst important??





To all my blog's readers,
had u all think about relationship around us??